Opted against motherhood for personal freedom

A prominent feminist author and critic is currently developing a genealogical chart that extends significantly beyond simply identifying the initial matriarch or patriarch.

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2025 September 20 . 5:33 AM

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Opted against motherhood for personal freedom

Mona Eltahawy, born in 1967 in Port Said, Egypt, has made a name for herself as a fearless advocate for women's rights and social justice. Her journey, however, was not without challenges as she navigated through traditional expectations and societal norms.

Growing up, Mona's family, much like many others in Egypt and the Middle East, held conservative views about women's roles. They expected women to wait until marriage to have sex and to get pregnant as soon as they married. This was a common practice in many families, but Mona's life would take a different course.

In 2012, Mona made headlines when she was arrested in New York for spray-painting over a racist, pro-Israel advertisement in the subway. This act of defiance was a clear statement of her commitment to challenging oppressive systems. The same spirit led her to be assaulted and then arrested by Egyptian riot police the year before.

Despite the pressures to conform, Mona chose to be childfree. This decision, while personal, was not without controversy. In 2017, discussing pregnancy outside of conventional marriage was still considered taboo in some social circles of Muslim women and women from the Middle East. An Egyptian TV presenter was even sentenced to three years in jail for discussing the same topic.

Mona, however, saw her decision as a celebration of freedom. She believes that being childless is "more" - blossoming with love, rebellion, and freedom. If she had a daughter, she would have taught her to disobey everything she taught her and insisted that she be free.

Mona's family name, Eltahawy, can be traced back 12 generations, but all the names belong to men. This tradition, while common, did not deter Mona. Instead, she is working on a family tree that focuses on foremothers rather than tracing the original patriarch. This project is richer and more expansive than just a genealogy, as it delves into the stories and contributions of her foremothers.

Mona's family considers the ability to recite all 12 generations of the Eltahawy family name as somewhat of a family badge of honor. Mona, however, sees it as a reminder of the patriarchal norms she is challenging. Her work, both personal and professional, is a testament to her commitment to breaking free from these traditions and paving a new path for women.

Mona's nephew once referred to her as living at the airport due to her frequent travels. Her dedication to advocacy and her quest for knowledge have taken her far and wide. Yet, no matter where she goes, she remains a beacon of rebellion and a champion for women's rights.