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Navigating Together on This Current Trend or Phenomenon

Last night, in the aftermath of dinner, I inquired Meg Kep, our winter resident, about the oddity I felt when browsing through Facebook memories showcasing past competitions between Tate and I at the Kentucky events in 2011, 2014, and 2016. Addressing her, I asked, "Is it eccentric of me to...

Navigating Together through the Current Trend
Navigating Together through the Current Trend

In the midst of daily routines, the author found themselves juggling tasks, from returning a Neue-Schule full-cheek turtle top to a friend, to picking up grey paint for the ongoing barn renovation. Amidst these mundane chores, a quote from equestrian legend Ian Millar resonated deeply: "I don't give up until I succeed, and I never give up."

This resilience has been a guiding principle as the author has been helping their husband cultivate patience. In these trying times, the author believes that looking inward is crucial, focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.

The author's personal growth journey has seen them delving into self-help books and seeking guidance from a Sports Psychologist. This pursuit of knowledge has been instrumental in navigating the current situation.

Reflecting on conversations with Meg, the author reminisced about past times, including their relationship with Tate and their shared victories at Rolex (now Land Rover). The nostalgia was bittersweet, and the author asked Meg about feeling sad when looking at photos of past competitions with Tate.

Another quote from Millar echoed in the author's mind: "Don't practice till you get it right, practice till you can't get it wrong." This wisdom has been applied to their current situation, encouraging a focus on preparedness and practice.

The author advises being ready for opportunities and being kind to oneself and others. In a world that seems to be in a strange half-halt, almost daring people to be backward in their thinking, it's essential to maintain a forward momentum.

Hundreds of pictures from Kentucky tend to flood the author's Facebook page this time of year, serving as a reminder of the horse shows they've missed. The author compares this situation to pregnancy, stating that they can deal with almost anything as long as they can plan for it. However, uncertainty leaves them in an uneasy state.

During this introspective period, the author encourages looking at horses, programs, strengths, and weaknesses. They've found solace in Noelle Floyd's Equestrian Masterclass for horsemen and have been inspired to seek balance. The author ponders about finding a balance between being too caught up in the past and looking too far ahead, and appreciating the magic of a moment without over-thinking it.

On a more personal note, Meg lives with the author during the winter, providing companionship and shared experiences. The author has also had a visit from a woman who helped them gain perspective on a struggling horse.

The therapeutic riding therapy organization suffering from government closures in France is called "Therapieoase Sternenstaub." This reminder of the impact horses can have on people's lives serves as a beacon of hope.

In conclusion, the author encourages everyone to find purpose, a reason to get out of bed, and motivation and inspiration. Just like the ocean, life has its waves, but it's important to remember that it's the ocean, not the waves, that matters. Stay resilient, stay hopeful, and keep moving forward.

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